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Erma11 Send email
Sep 13, 2020

Suspended before account was confirmed.

I created an account and uploaded appropriate pictures and it said my account was suspended before I could even send a message. No email or explanation. What happened?
Benjamin Hutchins Send email
Oct 11, 2019

Active account without logging in

Hello all.

I am curious if anyone has had an issue with a profile showing as active with out the account holder actually logging into the app or website.

A few months ago I met an amazing guy on a different dating app. As soon as we started talking I deleted the few chat apps i had at the time. None of which were Adam4Adam. I havent used that particular app in months prior to meeting him because i never cared for it.

Any time i have started talking to someone and think there may be a chance of it going any where I immediately delete any and all chat/dating apps. I have never actually deleted the account just simply delete the apps.

He receives a screenshot today of where my A4A account was active a week ago. I swear on everything that I havent been on the app.

I have been doing nothing be research since the issue arose and I'm finding out alot of stuff.

For example that it's very possible that by simply deleting an email can show an account to be active. I've even had a relative tell me they had a same issue as to where a website would show her as active just so that current active members could see more profiles even though some of those members may not truly be active.

I did download the app again and even had to reset my password just to log in. I have contacted A4A multiple times and they are only responding with change my password. Well I had to. I didnt have any messages, but who's to say if I really was cheating that i just dont keep the messages deleted.

I would be responding the same way he is and i totally understand it.

A4A hasnt responded to my last couple of emails and I'm stuck. I've went as far as to read their entire terms and conditions and seen where they state that they will use and change or share your profile as they wish.

I just need answers. I'm willing to fight for this relationship. I have nothing to hide. I even have him my ipad to use and left all my email and social media accounts logged in because I have nothing to hid.

Someone please help
gymrat1000 Send email
Feb 18, 2017


My account got suspended for some reason and the site said this was related to the picture I uploaded. However I used that picture years ago when I created an account and remained there until I decided to delete my account. So I created another profile using that picture but I got suspended I couldn't login.
WNY Guy Send email
Feb 23, 2012

This should be Illegal in this country

I've had an account with A4A for four years. Until this morning...when my account was "suspended." I have no idea why. There is no explanation as to what triggered the suspension. My e-mail has not received any word from
them. Nothing materially has changed in my profile or my pictures. I have not flamed anyone, and am always
respectful of the other person. There are always new people hitting me up for a meeting, but many of them I turn
down due to work and personal circumstances. Many of them are a half hour away by car, and I won't drive that far.
One thing I did do differently..which could have been a that the last time I logged in without a problem,
I tried doing so using a free proxy server from another part of the globe..just on a lark. I logged out minutes later,
and that was it. Perhaps this one event was the one that prompted them to suspend me?
More the "suspension" permanent? If so, maybe they should use the words "account terminated, " rather than suspension, eh?
I have written customer care at a4a, but I don't expect a response. Maybe someone here can give me some
insight? I don't plan on using them again under a different handle at this point. Comments anyone?
Best Send email
Feb 23, 2012

This should be Illegal in this country

People get so addicted to hooking -up and having very unsafe, lascivious sex. It ruined my relationship with my partner . he's addicted to nightly hookups and couldn't stop.People lie about their profiles and even their HIV status.I knew a friend that uses this site a lot and just had a positive HIV test result. this is ridiculous, sites like this should not exist.It can destroy you mentally, morally and emotionally.

They need to be investigated. this should be Illegal in this country.

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